Author: Ariole K Alei
Email: ariole (@ ) veraxis. net
Finding true love is one of the most fundamental needs of ahuman being. We all need water, food, clothing and shelter. And we all need love.
Our current world is increasingly isolating. Fewer and fewer of us know our neighbors. More and more of us work behind computer screens - and even play behind them. How do we find love?The more we become, as individuals, increasingly interested in 'things holistic', the less likely we are to meet significant friends and our soul mate through traditional avenues such as bars, sporting events and loud, noisy socials.
So how do we find love? If we're lucky, our perfect match is a good friend of someone we already know. And that someone we already know is keenly attuned to their intuition, such that they perceive a natural connection between us and their goodfriend. And they take action on their intuitive sense -and set up a meeting between us. And we both trust ourselves and have courage - and we agree to meet.
How often does this happen in our current society? So many of us have virtually paved over our intuition and oursensitivity to subtle energy 'signals'. We live in a 'gross energy' world, relying on things that have already happened to be our 'truth'. So how do we find love? We bite into the new ways of this world. We allow someone who has dedicated themselves to linking us with other mature, sensitive, 'green singles' - people who are interested in the values and ideals that we hold dear.
Online Dating - How Times Have Changed! Online dating sprung into being in the late 1990's. With the advent of the worldwide web and its brilliance inenabling us to connect with like-minded souls around the entire globe, it was an obvious tool - ripe and ready foruse in finding love. Web dating allows incredible privacy - superb for people who are typically shy when it comes to finding love. Without disclosing anything about yourself that you choose to reveal only once you've gotten to know someone sufficiently well for your liking, you are completely in charge of the pace by which you meet singles.
You can zip faster than you would 'live, face-to-face' , as online dating systems offer a sense of protection from being exposed. Or you can slow things down, taking time as you end brief emails, winks and smiles to your prospective partner via the site's instant messaging, forums and chatrooms. It's all up to you. You choose.
You're in charge. What a relief! You can even explore a more empowered sense of yourselft hrough choosing a User Name other than your first name -the one given to you at birth. If you've felt yourselfglowing like sunshine, you can call yourself 'Sunshine'. If you love hiking in forests, you can call yourself 'Forest Hiker'. If you're a vegan interested in astrology,you can call yourself 'Vegan Astrologer'. It's all up to you. You decide how you want to present yourself to theworld - and to your prospective new friends and perfect match.
You can share things that are dear to your heart through communication on the site in ways that may not come up in face-to-face conversations. You can go as deep as you like in your presentation of yourself - or skim the surface for awhile. It's all up to you. You choose. You're in charge. What a relief! Green Singles - a New Wave of LoveWith the proliferation of web sites offering online dating as a way to meet your soul mate, a gap soon became evident.
Many of the people seeking love via the web are actually seeking sex. Online dating, for many, has become a world wide access to personals focused on the bare minimum of what intimate encounter with another human being can offer - sex.
There is so much more to a relationship than this. Sex is a crucial aspect of how we connect deeply withourselves and with our partner. Yet a relationship which is based solely on sex becomes swiftly dissatisfying to many people. Here's where 'green singles' come in. A small handful ofweb dating sites have been designed specifically forSingles interested in ecology, spirituality, soulful relationships, nutrition, holistic health, global peace, awakening human consciousness and more.
This small handful is unique in that they're all about assisting you to swiftly find your perfect match - and great new friends - near your current home and around the world.It's about you meeting the right people for you - people who enrich your life, make you laugh and relax, connect you to a deeper sense of who you are and to the tremendous meaning and value of your life. Law of Attraction - Magnetize Your Perfect Match! 'Green Singles' sites are more apt to teach - and model -the Law of Attraction.
The Law of Attraction is so incredibly powerful. It's not just about 'thinking about' who you want to meetas your perfect match. It's about becoming the parallelenergy of that person. Here's the key: When you become what you want, you receive it. We're talking energy - subtle energy - vibration. Vibration is what the Law of Attraction is based on.
You magnetically attract to you the things, people, events andopportunities that match your vibration.This is the 'science' of the Law of Attraction. I once had the pleasure of hearing Len George, a son of the famous Chief Dan George, speak. He said, "When I became the man I wanted to marry … I met my wife." That's it, in a nutshell. That's the Law of Attraction in action.
When you are able to clarify who you want to be in your relationship; how you want to feel; what kind of outlookyou want to have on yourself, life and the world around you through being in that relationship - then you begin to moveyourself into the energy field of being that relationship.You literally become it, energetically. And as you become it, you effortlessly attract it to you.This is the essence of more holistic approaches to webdating - the opportunity for you to easily, effortlessly meet 'law of attraction singles' - other people like you who are interested in attracting the best, most meaningful, most respectful and empowering heart-centred relationshippossible.
Carpe diem! Seize the day! Why hide?
Step out and meet someone new - today.
About the Author: Ariole K. Alei is an International Speaker, Teacher, Coach, Healer and Author of 6 books. She is the Co-Founder, with her husband Colin Hillstrom, of HeartSong Solutions - Life and Relationship Training - and Heart Song Matchmaking -"the world's first holistic meeting site for spiritually and ecologically minded singles". She leads frequent TeleClasses on a variety of topics.
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